Chen Edison said that marriage is just a piece of paper. Does true love really not require a certificate？

　　Does the meaning of marriage really lie in a marriage contract? Edison Chen gave a free and easy answer: "Marriage is a piece of paper, and I think the most important thing is the relationship." He, who already has a love crystal with Qin Shupei, was asked in an interview whether he would take his relationship with his girlfriend further. Chen Edison’s attitude was clearly indifferent.

　　There was no end to the topic of marriage and love. As soon as Edison Chen’s remarks came out, the Penguin Q & A platform immediately triggered a heated debate about "two people have real feelings, do they still need to get a marriage license?"

　　After reading the answers from the netizens above, people can’t help but sigh. Maybe those netizens who think they don’t need to get a certificate have some truth. But should a man who doesn’t marry you believe that he loves you? Let’s take a look at the attitudes of emotional experts on this issue.

　　Indeed, in today’s complex society, feelings are a game. Furthermore, this society is developing better and better, and people are increasingly yearning for single aristocrats.However, whether a man marries or not and whether he loves you or not are sometimes not directly related to this extent.

　　A man who doesn’t want to get married can love you very much, there is no doubt about this. Loving you and not wanting to marry you are sometimes two different things. Of course, when you meet such a man, you can only talk about love with him, not the best marriage partner. If you don’t want to waste time, it is best to end this love quickly. After all, a woman values marriage very much, and only when you have a home can you feel warm.Therefore, you should believe that a man who doesn’t want to marry you loves you, but that’s all.

　　Whether to get married or not and whether to love you or not may really be two things. Seeing this, we might as well open our minds. If the marriage certificate is valid for 8 years, will you renew it after it expires? For this issue, netizens have different opinions.

　　Emotional Q & A Talent: Siege

　　If the marriage license valid period of 8 years, after the expiration of I will renew!Why not renew the marriage? If there are no reasons or excuses for not surviving the marriage, and if there are no issues of principle, why not continue the marriage?A lifetime of life requires countless eight years to complete, such a life is happy.

　　Therefore, no matter how many years the valid period of the marriage certificate is, there is no valid period for marriage and feelings, or the valid period for feelings and responsibilities is a lifetime. The marriage certificate is just a certificate, it cannot determine the quality of life, its only function is only a proof, proving the legitimacy and validity of the marriage. If there is no emotion, what is the meaning of even a valid period of life?

　　Tencent Qi’ehao: Magic Dragon Girl

　　If the relationship between husband and wife also becomes a contractual relationship. And the valid period is 8 years. I think I will choose to be single. Because I don’t want to choose someone else when I am young, and be chosen by others when I am old. The relationship between husband and wife is a kind of kinship without blood relationship, and it is not easy to maintain it unchanged. Now I have to put an 8-year valid period on it.I really don’t like this kind of relationship anymore. Instead of living in such a relationship without legal protection, it is better to have a happy life. Although obligations and responsibilities have been cancelled, it is better to be more thorough.

　　Be myself. If even the relationship between husband and wife has a time limit, then there will be too many variables in these 8 years. Unequal treaties will also take the opportunity to have a market. I don’t like to love and be loved with purpose. So, if so, I would rather choose to live alone.

　　Emotional Q & A Expert: Writer Hui Yongsheng

　　If the valid period is 8 years, someone may leave because of it. Loving is still loving, not loving, 8 years is a bit long.

　　For loving couples, the love is deep over time, regardless of the length of the marriage certificate, their love still runs deep. A marriage certificate is nothing more than a piece of paper to them, just a kind of proof from outsiders. But for other couples themselves, it doesn’t matter, the years can be learned, the existence or absence of this marriage certificate does not affect their feelings. Some couples have gone through 50 or 60 years of ups and downs together, and the marriage certificate has been moth-eaten and blistered, so what?

　　On the contrary, some couples who were carried away by love because of the wrong choice at the beginning, and two people walked together on a whim, 8 years was too long for them. In these eight years, I don’t know how many times they quarreled, how many times they fought, and how many times they had to go to divorce. If the valid period is reached, they are eager to leave early and break up.

　　This is also a relief for men and women who are emotionally divided.

　　In the past, when people regarded divorce as a foreign object, I don’t know how many women were tied up in a painful life by marriage and had no way to leave at all. Many rural women have ended up on a dead end as a result. Now, with the opening of people’s minds, women’s pursuit of independence and a happy life has become a trend. Many couples who live in discord choose to divorce and regain their freedom.

　　Emotions are sweet and sour, just like people know when they drink water. Even if the marriage certificate is valid for life, it cannot stop divorced men and women. Happy love has little to do with the marriage certificate, the key lies in people’s hearts.

　　When it comes to marriage, an interesting thing suddenly comes to mind here. Not long ago, on a dating show, a handsome guy from Chongqing said that he only eats clear soup when he eats hot pot. Unexpectedly, the female guests questioned that he was less masculine and chose to turn off the lights one after another. Isn’t it not a man if you don’t eat spicy food?

　　The netizens of Penguin Q & A tell you that whether you eat spicy food or not has nothing to do with whether you are a man!

　　Tencent Qi’ehao: Mind Story

　　Suppose someone else also said that a girl was not a real girl because she liked spicy food, what would she think? This question is like before, as long as a girl is stronger and has a larger appetite, she will be called a "woman man".Although some names are not malicious, when we freely use our own ideas to define others, have we ever thought that this kind of thing itself will have a different impact on others?

　　Secondly, I think whether it is a real man or not has nothing to do with whether you can eat spicy food. This may be due to your body, preferences, living environment, etc. I think it is also amazing to turn off the lights because of your eating habits. If you don’t like it, you can say it directly. No one scolds you.

　　Then again, now many people do have extreme disgust because of a certain action of others, but sometimes it is really an unintentional act of others. Before I knew a boy, walking all kinds of burnt buns, some people would say his mother, but really when you encounter something, he will always do his best to help you, while those who usually say that their boyfriend is full of strength will have no news. I think this kind of person can help you at a critical time without care, and usually keeps a friendly distance from girls. Such a person is a real man and a gentleman. But in real life, there are too few such boys, and most of them are so-called "real men".

　　But in fact, this can’t be blamed on them, everyone is just assimilated by the worldly vision, so they always look at the people around them with a rigid vision.The world doesn’t need too many "real men", nor does it need too many colored glasses. Reject the so-called double standard, reject this worldly similarity of vision.